so im starting to realize (like big time realize) that some things you can only really understand and learn thorugh experience. like,. people can tell you and try to give you advice to spare you the troubel of learning whatever life lessson" it is but alas a lot of these things can only be relaly really really understood through first hand experience..

i used to think that blindly taking advice was kind of .. naive or something like that -- but im starting to raelly see the value in it.. when it comes from people that you trust and can put that kind of faith into.  for me, those people have always turned out to be right.  and when that advice comes out of real care and concern and love for you, yeah, the advice is probably going to pretty much on target.

what i do hate tho is how sometimes you learn lessons after the fact. like when you finally understand why you upset smoeone.. or why that person was upset with you bc of your own first hand experience. i suppose that is what they call karma .. peaceful karma tho right?



in other news work is busy busy busy  the next month is giogn to be nuts aaannnd... GO HOYAS!

nobody ever loved me more than this guy.